Philosophy Essay Example: Healing is Self Awareness

If I were to write and name a book about my life I would name it Healing is self awareness I've realized trauma healing scar and wound matches together, questions? Is there a right amount of time to heal? Is your trauma justifiable? Does time really heal?

Growing up I had a pretty normal childhood that comes with a lot of trauma. Many Say "trauma makes you stronger" but in reality it didn't make me stronger it made me weak made me lose my memories when all of it came back it hurts. Trauma made me a people pleaser. It made me want to please people and to take it upon myself to make them happy,  fast forward to my teenage years . I  thought I've gotten over everything but in reality did I ever do? My trauma wounded me and left a scar in me. Rose Kenny once said, that 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone." And I totally agree with the quote

Time doesn't heal anything times just goes by while your still wounded and scared. Time is very interesting for how it works. Part of being a teenager is meeting people and them leaving. And that feeling is horrible because you'll have to heal and society puts a certain amount of time into healing. They say things like "get over this and that" but how can you really get over the situation? Healing doesn't just take time, it takes patience, your sanity, your 100 percent effort . The only thing Time does is goes by fast. Scar is a very permanent thing that will forever stay within you.

As many don't realize, once you never truly heal you'll forever be broken. Many use people or things as a healing method but in reality is avoiding the truth. I'm one of those people I never realized that before. I've  never really allowed myself to heal but rather than just fill in a void inside of me .

There's a huge difference between healing and needing to be healed. Once you heal you find your worth the source of your happiness. I healed once and it felt different compared to now that I'm back at square one again. Once you don't allow yourself to heal your scar and wounds start to get larger. Scars and wounds don't heal, time doesn't make you feel any better. In life you have to allow yourself to heal society should start explaining the real feeling of healing because it's hard because of the constant  failure the constant trouble of thinking I'm healed  just to go back at square one no one ever  talks about how hard it is one week your feeling happy and the next you're not Nobody is ever really healed from anything all it takes is that one word or action to bring it all back. I'm on my healing process and some days it gets better. One thing about trauma is that Trauma makes you afraid of people around you. The trauma it left in you 

No one can ever truly heal from a trauma without actually trying. My scar that made me who I am. I'll forever keep healing from my trauma that left a wound that turned into a scar inside of me.  you can only  heal from mild  sickness but not from a traumatic experience. Trauma,healing takes time and it ends once you know you know . Healing is self awareness of what you will and will not allow. Once you're healing you'll lose many people.